whole 30 week 1

what the heck is a whole 30?

My culinary philosophy is summed in the words of author and food advocate Michael Pollan, "Eat food.  Not too much.  Mostly plants".  I'm not into "fad diets".  I think, for most people, they act as a short fix.  The goal of any diet should be long term health, not counting calories! Brad and I already eat a full fat, real food diet with hardly anything processed in our home so I didn't think doing a whole 30 would be necessary for us. And when you exclude my baking addiction, we already eat paleo-ish, so really how different could it be?

Well...it's definitely different.  The program promises to change your life and redesign the way you think about the what and why behind food.  According to the website, the Whole 30 is a nutritional program that acts "as a short-term nutritional reset, designed to help you put an end to unhealthy cravings and habits, restore a healthy metabolism, heal your digestive tract, and balance your immune system."  You go without sugar, dairy, grains, and legumes for 30 days in order to heal your gut and heal your emotional relationship to food.  After the 30 days are over, you slowly reintroduce the "banned" foods into your diet to see how your body responds to them. 

Sounds extreme right?  I thought so too.  But the more I researched, the more I became aware of how much I needed to do this.  I realized that this isn't a "fad diet" but something that coincided with my own food philosophy. This was something that could truly enhance my life. 

so...Why are you doing this?

At this point, you're probably thinking I'm crazy.  How can you go without cheese, wine, muffins, and chocolate chip cookies for a month???  Well, it is only 30 days of my life.  In the scheme of things, that's really not that long.  I have done harder things than tell myself "no" to my favorite treats.

The real reason why I'm doing whole 30 (this may sound strange to some of you), but I felt like God was calling me to do this as an offering for Him.  You see, I am addicted to sugar.  Plain and simple.  I eat healthy, I exercise, but I also really really love chocolate.  When I'm sad, lonely, or stressed I bake homemade yummies....and then I eat the things I bake. All of them.  I don't eat just one cookie, I eat half a dozen. I try to fix the thing that was bothering me by eating food (preferably in the form of homemade, warm, and gooey chocolate chip cookies).

Yesterday I had a long, stressful day.  And MANNNN I wanted a chocolate chip cookie so bad I could cry.  I wanted to give up and not do this whole 30 thing anymore.  But then that quiet whisper stirred in my heart and I was reminded of the "why" behind this challenge. 

It is a bad habit of mine that I tend to go to Ben & Jerry before going to Jesus.  When I need to feel better, I want to eat my feelings in cookie dough or ice cream or donuts.  When I want to pull my hair out because my child won't nap, I want to run into the kitchen to sneak eat some chocolate chips so I can make it through the day.  The reason why I'm doing this crazy Whole 30 thing is simple: self control.  I want to be able to be in control of my food choices and heal my emotional attachment to sugar, so that I can recognize that what I'm seeking isn't chocolate chip cookies -- it's Christ!  He wants me to run to HIM for comfort instead of running to my Kitchen Aid mixer.  Because, as we know, He is the only one who can fully do that.

Now that you know the why, here's what was on the menu for the week:

Week 1 Menu:

My breakfasts usually consists of eggs with veggies, some type of meat, and fruit.  The photo pictured above is what a typical breakfast for me looks like.   If I don't do that, then I'll eat a bowl of paleo granola, fresh fruit, and whipped coconut milk (pictured below) with a few hard boiled eggs on the side.  Plus coffee of course!

My lunches, are either leftovers from dinner or tuna salad in a big bell pepper.

For dinner, I tried to pick recipes that I was familiar with, that way I didn't have to worry about cooking something brand new.  That being said, I get bored with my food easily and can't really eat the same thing week after week.  I usually cook one or two recipes I've never tried before just to keep things interesting! The recipes with a * in the name denote a recipe that is a fan favorite in the Fossier house and makes the rounds on our regular weekly menus.

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Day 1 - White Chicken Chili

Day 2 - Basil Chicken Meatballs with Caramelized Lemon, Grapes, and Sweet potato (this was my first time trying this recipe and it was SO good)

Day 3 - Crockpot Chicken Curry* (sub honey for unsweetened applesauce) with Cauliflower rice

Day 4 - Ina's Pork Tenderloin* with Thai Pumpkin Soup* and throw together salad

Day 5 - Taco Salad

Day 6 - Left Overs

Day 7 - Pecan Salmon* with left over Pumpkin Soup and Garlic Roasted Broccoli*

WEEK 1 snacks:

As a nursing mama, I need to fuel up constantly in order to meet the demands of my very hungry child. Pier still nurses every couple hours so I'm hungry all day long!  I'll be making note each week of what I'm snacking on to help trigger my memory in the future if I ever decide to do one of these things again ;).  Check out my favorites for this week:

Coconut Chips
Organic Applesauce
Organic carrots with wholly guacamole
Chia Banana Crisps
Organic sweet potatoes
Organic grapes
NUT BUTTER! -- I kinda overdosed on almond butter in college (not what you'd expect huh?) so I can't really eat it anymore.  But I recently bought pecan butter and fell in L_O_V_E.  It's got that sweet buttery flavor of a pecan and is perfect served with slices of apple or your granola!

Whole 30 tip of the Week:

PLAN AHEAD!  About a month before I started Whole 30, I knew I needed to be well prepared if I was going to be successful.  I meticulously planned my meals for the whole month and stocked up on staples such as bone broth, coconut oil, coconut milk, nut butter, whole 30 approved snacks, and cans of tuna fish in preparation.  Those things add up when you're grocery shopping, so by purchasing those items in advance I saved the headache of going crazy overboard during my first week. 

 

Missed past weeks? Find them here:
Week 2
Week 3
Week 4

The Need for Divine Mercy

Happy Divine Mercy Sunday my friends!  Today is one of my favorite days for many reasons, but it's EXTRA special today because it's Divine Mercy Sunday during the YEAR of Mercy.  Big big things are happening I know it....boy do we need it!  Actually St. John Paul II says, "There is nothing more that the world needs today than Divine Mercy".  Can I get an Amen!!!

For those who aren't familiar with Divine Mercy Sunday, let me explain it using the words Jesus revealed to St. Faustina:

"Tell the whole world about my inconceivable mercy, I desire that the Feast of Mercy be a refuge and shelter for all souls, especially for poor sinners.  On that day the very depths of My tender mercy are open.  I pour out a whole ocean of graces upon those souls who approach the Fount of My Mercy.  The soul that will go to Confession and receive Holy Communion shall obtain complete forgiveness of sins and punishment.  On that day all the divine floodgates through which graces flow are opened.  Let no soul fear to draw near to Me, even though its sins be as scarlet.  My mercy is so grate that no mind, be it of man or of angel, will be able to fathom it throughout all eternity.  Everything that exists has come forth from the very depths of My most tender mercy.  Every soul in its relation to Me will contemplate My love and mercy throughout eternity." + Diary of St. Faustina, 699

What's the big deal?  Why is Divine Mercy so important? It's so important because Divine Mercy is the heart of the Gospel.  It is when God, who is love itself, expresses His tender love to poor sinners.  He loves the unloved, He forgives the unforgivable. He sees our brokenness and yearns for us to come to Him so that he can pour out his love and mercy on us. 

The Lord never tires of forgiving, never! It is we who tire of asking for his forgiveness.
— Pope Francis

God is so good.   NO sin is too big for God.  I beg you to run to Him. He will receive you with open arms and a joyful heart that you did.  Fr. Michael Gaitely explains this in his book 33 Days to Merciful Love better than I ever could: "It's the Good News that God doesn't love us because we're so good but because He's so good, that he loves us not because we deserve it but because we desperately need it....God isn't attracted to our gifts, virtues, and talents, but rather, to our weakness brokenness and sin.  And that is the very definition of mercy." 

If we first accept the Lord and allow Him into the darkness of our hearts, then there is no end to what He can do through us.  Of course, we must be very sorry for our sins, but as long as we keep on trying, He can move mountains.

Embrace his mercy!

Our goal for the year of Mercy is to always ask for His mercy, be merciful to others, and completely trust in the power of divine mercy.  It's not too late to begin something special for the Year of Mercy.  Here are a few ideas our family has adopted to help fully embrace this gift of a year:

Write A Letter - I try (but often fail) at fully incorporating the spiritual and corporal works of mercy in my life.  There are so many people who are lonely and need a friend, who are hungry and need food, who are sick and need healing.  Where do you start? This website has a compiled list of ideas of how to fulfill the corporal works of mercy.  Up for something different?  One idea is to write a letter (or e-mail) to an inmate in prison telling them you are praying for them. Most of us aren't able to physically go to a prison to talk and pray with inmates, so this is a way for us to do just that. You can visit here to chose which inmate you want to send your letter to. 

The 3:00 Hour - Set an alarm on your phone to help you observe the 3 o'clock hour, the hour that Our Lord died for our sins. The best way to do this is to pray the Stations of the Cross if you have time, but you can also say a chaplet, pray the sorrowful mysteries of the rosary, or spend some time adoring Christ in the Blessed Sacrament. If you only have a few moments to spare, quietly recall the Lord's passion and pray this prayer:

You expired, O Jesus, but the source of life gushed forth for souls
and an ocean of mercy opened up for the whole world. O Fount of Life, unfathomable Divine Mercy, envelop the whole world and empty Yourself out upon us.  O Blood and Water, which gushed forth from the Heart of Jesus as a fount of mercy for us, I trust in You.

Pray (especially when you don't want to) - Pray the chaplet of divine mercy any chance you get. It only takes 7 minutes to pray! You could pray it walking to and from class, first thing in the morning, or when you are doing a task you really don't want to do.  My favorite time to pray it is when I nurse Pier in the middle of the night.  That way, I'm uniting the sacrifice of sleepily getting up out of my warm bed to Christ's passion in a tangible way by reciting the chaplet.

Adopt a Soul - Pick someone -- it can be a relative, a friend, a soul in purgatory, or a stranger -- and pray for them often.  Any time you do something difficult, pray for that specific person you "adopted" all year long that he or she will be willing to receive the mercy Christ so desperately wants to give them.   When sacrifices are made for the sake of someone else, they don't seem that hard anymore!

Take a Drive - I invite you to forgo listening to that Billboard Hot 100 radio in your car for something that benefits your soul.  An audio book, a Lighthouse Catholic CD of the month, or listening to the rosary//divine mercy chaplet are all good ways to do this! You don't realize how much time you waste driving and that could be time well spent doing something that can pull you to closer to Jesus. 

Make a Consecration to Divine Mercy (!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) -  There is a reason there are so many exclamation points after this one.  Do yourself a favor and buy this book by Fr. Michael Gaitely.  It is a gentle guide to the depths of Christ's Divine Mercy through the lens of St. Therese of Lisieux (you see why I love this book so much!).  He connects Therese's Little Way to Divine Mercy in such a profound way that I would do it a great disservice if I attempted to summarize.  Buy the book and pick a day to make your consecration! 

I hope you take advantage of this sacred day and receive all the mercy you can! I'll leave you with this prayer:

Jesus, thank you for your profound merciful love.  Help us to receive how deeply you love mankind.  Give us the grace to love you as you deserve to be love.  We praise you and bless your name always.  Amen.

Annnd because this little guy teaches me a lot about mercy, here's a picture from today of Pier being cute.  It was a beautiful glorious day!

pier's first easter

Happy Easter friends! Today is full of JOY!  Easter is one of my favorite days of the year, and much like Christmas, there's a certain giddiness that takes over when sharing holidays with little ones.  Especially when that holiday is so central to our faith! It's days like today that we miss our friends and family the most, but we had the best day celebrating as our little family of three.

We began the day by dressing Pier in his Easter best and giving him his first Easter basket! 

I think he liked the basket more than the toys ;)

Then we headed to mass to celebrate one of the most sacred liturgies we get to experience as Catholics.  And it's exciting to say Alleluia for the first time in weeks!!!

We were graced with the most BEEEAUTIFUL weather today -- which was much appreciated after an Indiana winter!  It was a perfect 75 degree spring day filled with birds chirping and flowers blooming.  These are just a few flowers in my yard right now!

We planned it so in between nap times we could eat at our favorite place for a nice Easter dinner.  Brad and I actually ate there last year for Easter as well, so we think it will be an Indiana tradition from here on out.  This year we had a very active boy who loved eating the menu and walking around the farm looking at the cows!  I mean, they even had baby chicks you could pet. 

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I hope you had a peaceful day celebrating with those you hold dear.  Thanks be to God for giving us this gift!

month 9

9 MONTHS!!!!! My little man is 9 months old today!  Look at that blonde hair! Those rubber band wrists! The squishy tummy!  I could eat him up. It's been a crayyyzay few weeks, so let's begin....

First off, we survived his first illness! It was just a cold and a double ear infection, but it was enough sicky-ness to put us out of commission for a solid two weeks.  Let's just say it was a lot of this: 

And he absolutely refused to take his antibiotics until I figured out I could sneakily mix it in his food (first time mom remember) so our evenings looked a lot like this:

Crazy sicky psycho child of mine.

Because he was sick half the month, I'm a little limited on the number of cute smiley photos but here's an update anyway for those missing this little monkey!

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Well maybe I got more smiley photos than I thought ha!

Pier is pretty much obsessed with our cat.  He giggles every time she comes next to him!  It's the sweetest thing.  I thinkkkk Gertie actually is warming up to him because she tries to snuggle despite his fumble attempts to eat her tail.  She sneaks into his room when I'm not looking, and she jumps in his crib when I come get him from his naps!  The best of buds these two...
 

I think we have a crawler now!  I say "think" because I'm not entirely certain how he gets from one end of the room to another....He's not rocking or getting up on his hands, but for some strange reason lifts up one side of his body (kinda like a whale) and rolls a bit until he's where he wants to be.  In typical boy fashion, he has decided that I can no longer hold him because it's much more fun to play on the ground and show off new tricks.  He can pull up on things and stand up!  Look how proud he is :)

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His new talent is dumping the toy basket out and not being satisfied with ANY of it.  He's literally the most challenging kid to entertain because he gets bored within seconds (not exaggerating).  He whimpers and grunts and refuses to play with the toys we do have.  Not even the wipes work anymore!

He's definitely developing his own personality...

A few things I want to remember about this month:

  • He wants to read books!  When I read to him, he tries to talk with me and looks up at me like we are having a literary discussion about the text.  His favorite is the Baby Lit Pride & Prejudice...Really.  Did I mention I love this boy?!
  • He could be fussy and angry one second and then if you start singing itsy bitsy spider he'll give you the biggest smile.  I don't understand, but it works (sometimes)!
  • He must sit in my lap to play.  I have to be within arms reach or he will freak out.  When I leave the room he starts to cry, even if he's playing with Brad! 
  • He smiles at Pope Francis...he's been doing this for a while now and it's impossible to get on video but I don't want to forget it.  There's this large Pope Francis photo in our church and when we walk by it he just BEAMS and giggles at Papa!  Sweet innocence.

Well that's all I have this month! Glad we survived you Month 9 ;)  Oh and we're ready for spring. Not sure how much cold weather this boy can take, ya know?

40 day fashion fast | lenten lessons

Hi, remember me? The girl addicted to shopping? Well, I'm back, and I'm here to tell you I have almost survived 40 days of wearing 10 pieces of clothing.  Now with Holy Week approaching, I thought this would be a great opportunity to give those interested a little update on how my fashion fast is going.  If you have no idea what I'm talking about you can read about my Lenten fast here.

So, here's how it went:

Equipped with the enthusiasm that accompanies a new challenge, the first two weeks of my fast were -- dare I say it -- FUN.  I began to think that this was going to be way too easy and I needed to give up something else quick if this was going to be fruitful. 

But then week 3 hit.  The newness of it all wore off, and I realized that this decision is a true sacrifice for me. The night my husband surprised me with a fancy date night, I couldn't wait to wear one of my favorite pre-pregnancy dresses. But that didn't get to happen. And when the weather warmed up, I wanted to immediately break out all my spring worthy outfits in celebration that I survived another Indiana winter but nopppppppe that couldn't happen either.

I also started to get bored and frustrated with my limited options, and was tempted to go to the banned side of my closet to cure my fashion boredom. That's when I realized that by eliminating the excess and fasting from the convenience of an endless wardrobe was HARD.  It may seem like a silly or small sacrifice to some, but it was (and still is) a real challenge for someone as attached to clothes as I am. 

That being said, my 10 piece wardrobe has challenged me to be creative with the pieces I already own.  I wanted to document some of the ways I've done this but I'm a lazy pseudo-blogger and don't know how to do a self-timer thing on my camera... There IS still a week left of Lent so maybe there's hope that it'll happen! But probably not... 

Oh and when I said I planned to give up shopping, I meant all shopping (even the online variety).  I tried to limit my online shopping as much as I could.  I'm going to be honest though, the online shopping habit way is way harder to break than I thought it would be. I do love to window shop through my computer screen... When I'm tired, sick, or just bored it's so easy to turn on my computer and start browsing for an outfit for an upcoming event. 

I tried to keep one of my favorite prayers by St. Therese in my heart during these moments and on the days the hard things felt really hard:

“Jesus, help me to simplify my life by learning what you want me to be and becoming that person.” - St. Therese of Lisieux

I still catch myself online shopping...but when I realize what I'm doing I try to walk away from my computer and say a quick prayer.  Shopping in general stirs up feelings of discontentment and I would much rather spend my time doing something more fulfilling like exercising, praying, or reading. 

One last thing:

How do fashion bloggers look so cool in pictures?! For real!!! My mom took these pictures when she was in town (thanks mom!) and I could barely keep a straight face. For every 1 normal picture there were probably like 20 of these:

Guess that's why I'm not a fashion blogger.  Anywayyy, this has been super fruitful for me so far, so much so that I'm considering adapting this post-Lent. Crazy right.